another blessing

finally

thank you Lord...

oprah winfrey on MEN ..... (from camzy)

.. this is for all the girls who are sick of loserbitches aka men with no balls.. lol

THE Oprah Winfrey on "men" :)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.


Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.


Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.


If something bothers you, speak up.


Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.


You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.


Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if has more education or has a better job.


Do not make him into a quasi-god.


He is a man, nothing more nothing less.


Never let a man define who you are.


Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.


Not all men are DOGS. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.


You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.


You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.


You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.


Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.


Never move into his mother's house.


Never co-sign for a man.


Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.


Keep him in your radar, but get to know others.

pagsubok

may mga bagay sa mundo na hindi mo sukat akalain na mararamdaman mo...susubukan ka ng Diyos hanggang sa kaduluduluhang kapasidad ng puso at isip mo....mahirap, masakit, pro alam Nya na kakayanin mo....kahit ano pa ang mangyari sa buhay, maging masaya ka at magpasalamat, lahat ng bagay, biyaya Nya, minsan sa anyong hindi kasiyasiya...pero lahat ng ito pagsubok at hakbang upang ihanda ka sa totoong anyo ng mundo...ihanda ka sa isang laban na kakailanganin ang tatag at tibay ng pagkatao mo....


maraming beses na akong nasaktan... lumuha, nabigo, nahirapan.... pero sa kabila ng lahat ng damdaming halo halo kong naramdaman... patuloy parin akong nagmahal... nagmamahal... at alam kong magmamahal hanggang sa huling hininga ng puso ko...

mahal na mahal ko sya... at kahit gaano pa kasakit lahat ng damdaming pumupukol sa diwa ko ngayon.. alam kong sya ang lalaking mamahalin ko... panghabang buhay...

salamat Panginoon, sa lahat ng pagsubok na binibigay mo sa akin ngayon... alam kong hakbang mo lamang ito para tulungan akong ihanda sa mga susunod pang laban...

pagdurusa

sana lahat ng sakit parang buhangin sa dagat, pag dumaan ang tubig mabilis mapapawi ang hirap

only on my own

i know someday...

... my prince will come

suShIiii

my baby cutie little sis neth taught me how to make sushi....em so freakin' happy!!!!thank you so much girl!!!*muah*much love for you!

wanting

can i just be a child forever... so nobody will dare to hurt me and make me cry... coz if someone tries to, there's always that certain "somebody" who's willing to fight and defend me no matter what it takes...

today

i'm missing her so much...

one step at a time

haven't got the "dot" to scribble down memories...

I'm still hangin on to something i wanted to get through to since "hours" ago..but still, PAIN keeps on hunting me day by day....i don't even know how to help myself anymore...

i needed some time...

for myself...for my mind...for my soul...

i wanted a break...

for refreshments...for renewal...

i wanna feel alive again....

i wanna experience the rainbow reality of living...

i wanna know how to accept things and be happy about it ... for it is "destiny"...

new

happy to be a new member...

welcome welcome welcome...*muah*


Undergoing MyBlogLog Verification

sick

i'm not feeling well...

y?

of all people...y mama????!


i love you so much mama....please stay.....

for the man who shares my life

for the man who shares my life...

i know you're in a very difficult times at this very moment, and i feel so sorry for myself for not being there with you...i wanna hold ur hand and embrace you tight,whisper to your ear that you'll always have me, and i'll always be there for you whenever you call and need me. Everything's gonna be alright baby, it's hard but i know God will help...if only i can get all the pain that there is inside of you, i'll definitely do it...it's so hard for me to see you suffering from it, knowing that i can't do anything....i'm so angry with myself kc alam ko kung gano moko kailangan pro i can't be there with you...bebe mahal na mahal kita...mahal na mahal ko si mama...sobrang sama ng loob ko dahil alam ko situation nya and wala manlang akong chance para mayakap at masabi sa harap nya kung gano ko sya kamahal and gano ako nagpapasalamat sa lahat ng pagmamahal na binigay nya skin...and even for having you in this world for me to love forever..bebe gusto ko mangako ka skin na you'll try everything just to be strong...mama needs you to be strong for her...mahal na mahal na mahal kita bebe...mahal na mahal na mahal....mag iingat ka palagi lalo napo pag nagddrive ka...mahal na mahal na mahal po talaga kita!!!!i miss you..wag moko kalimutan i hug and kiss kay mama ha....*muah*tell her i love her so much....i miss her bebe, i really do miss her...if only God can grant me one wish/gift in life yun yung sana He continues to give us ni mama more time to share memories together...keep the faith bebe...miracles do happen...and God Gives to those who believes in Him....

your loving wife,
ruby

today

"it's a fine day today...."

my man

i love you so much Jose Rodrigo Munji Tesaluna

i love you so much!!!!

happy valentine's day my love!!!!

enjoy my voice mahal ko...hehehhee

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here's my gift for hubbybebe....sensya na sa very low quality ng voice....nirecord ko lang kc yan using my cellphone...hehehehe...natatawa nga ako nung pinapakinggan ko na eh...

i hope you'll love it bebe...i miss you so much!!!

i love you!!!!

melancholy

im so sad...

i don't even know y...

3days na akong hindi makatulog..ang bigat bigat ng loob ko...somethings bothering me but i don't have any idea what it is...it's so weird, but i suddenly cry at night with clueless questions in my head...

what's happening with me???....

y am i acting this strange.....or is it because, tomorrow is another special day...and another "me" being alone...


i hate it....
i hate myself....
i hate myself for hating myself....
can somebody tell me y?

i miss him.....i know i just miss him...

me

i know.....i am perfectly happy....

addiction

for the past few weeks, naging favorite subject ko for photographs yung mga "face" 's ng iba't ibang tao....and it really amazes me how every angle tells its own different stories...and when you truly try to observe and focus on it, you'll see how WONDERFUL, GOD really IS...it's true that no one is perfectly the same with another...and every individual has his/her own uniqueness...

kingking

Helaena Marie Ignacio

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mai

Myla Patricia Ann Lagdameo

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