thank you Lord...
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Monday, March 24, 2008
oprah winfrey on MEN ..... (from camzy)
.. this is for all the girls who are sick of loserbitches aka men with no balls.. lol
THE Oprah Winfrey on "men" :)
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if has more education or has a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
Not all men are DOGS. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar, but get to know others.
THE Oprah Winfrey on "men" :)
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if has more education or has a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
Not all men are DOGS. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar, but get to know others.
Friday, March 21, 2008
pagsubok
may mga bagay sa mundo na hindi mo sukat akalain na mararamdaman mo...susubukan ka ng Diyos hanggang sa kaduluduluhang kapasidad ng puso at isip mo....mahirap, masakit, pro alam Nya na kakayanin mo....kahit ano pa ang mangyari sa buhay, maging masaya ka at magpasalamat, lahat ng bagay, biyaya Nya, minsan sa anyong hindi kasiyasiya...pero lahat ng ito pagsubok at hakbang upang ihanda ka sa totoong anyo ng mundo...ihanda ka sa isang laban na kakailanganin ang tatag at tibay ng pagkatao mo....
maraming beses na akong nasaktan... lumuha, nabigo, nahirapan.... pero sa kabila ng lahat ng damdaming halo halo kong naramdaman... patuloy parin akong nagmahal... nagmamahal... at alam kong magmamahal hanggang sa huling hininga ng puso ko...
mahal na mahal ko sya... at kahit gaano pa kasakit lahat ng damdaming pumupukol sa diwa ko ngayon.. alam kong sya ang lalaking mamahalin ko... panghabang buhay...
salamat Panginoon, sa lahat ng pagsubok na binibigay mo sa akin ngayon... alam kong hakbang mo lamang ito para tulungan akong ihanda sa mga susunod pang laban...
maraming beses na akong nasaktan... lumuha, nabigo, nahirapan.... pero sa kabila ng lahat ng damdaming halo halo kong naramdaman... patuloy parin akong nagmahal... nagmamahal... at alam kong magmamahal hanggang sa huling hininga ng puso ko...
mahal na mahal ko sya... at kahit gaano pa kasakit lahat ng damdaming pumupukol sa diwa ko ngayon.. alam kong sya ang lalaking mamahalin ko... panghabang buhay...
salamat Panginoon, sa lahat ng pagsubok na binibigay mo sa akin ngayon... alam kong hakbang mo lamang ito para tulungan akong ihanda sa mga susunod pang laban...
pagdurusa
sana lahat ng sakit parang buhangin sa dagat, pag dumaan ang tubig mabilis mapapawi ang hirap
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
suShIiii
my baby cutie little sis neth taught me how to make sushi....em so freakin' happy!!!!thank you so much girl!!!*muah*much love for you!
Monday, March 03, 2008
wanting
can i just be a child forever... so nobody will dare to hurt me and make me cry... coz if someone tries to, there's always that certain "somebody" who's willing to fight and defend me no matter what it takes...
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Monday, February 25, 2008
one step at a time
haven't got the "dot" to scribble down memories...
I'm still hangin on to something i wanted to get through to since "hours" ago..but still, PAIN keeps on hunting me day by day....i don't even know how to help myself anymore...
i needed some time...
for myself...for my mind...for my soul...
i wanted a break...
for refreshments...for renewal...
i wanna feel alive again....
i wanna experience the rainbow reality of living...
i wanna know how to accept things and be happy about it ... for it is "destiny"...
I'm still hangin on to something i wanted to get through to since "hours" ago..but still, PAIN keeps on hunting me day by day....i don't even know how to help myself anymore...
i needed some time...
for myself...for my mind...for my soul...
i wanted a break...
for refreshments...for renewal...
i wanna feel alive again....
i wanna experience the rainbow reality of living...
i wanna know how to accept things and be happy about it ... for it is "destiny"...
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
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